Apr
09
    
Posted (Bavani Ratnam) in General on April-9-2009

www.iloike.com

Do check it out today for some really cool, one-of-a-kind and super exclusive tees!



 
Feb
16
    
Posted (Bavani Ratnam) in General on February-16-2009

Finally! Something I’ve been wanting to do for the longest time, which is also a part of my this year’s resolution:

 

To learn to create websites using Flash.

 

And I did it! After plenty of Google-ing, brain cracking and working till wee hours (I’m terribly NOT Flash savvy), I managed to get a simple one done. Nothing fancy, basic 3 page site with a short intro. But I’m happy! Thanks to the motivation and disagreements with one of my bestest girl friend Manisha, I pulled it off right before giving up entirely LOL. Love u mami!!

 

 http://www.joollingerie.com/  <– Click!

 



 
Feb
10
    
Posted (Bavani Ratnam) in General on February-10-2009
It was a bright and sunny Thaipusam day. You’re out and about with your best pals, checking out the ongoing celebrations. The procession of colorfully decorated Kavadis and devotees carrying milk pots was a scene not to be missed. From young children to elderly people, everyone was there. Music from the instruments played by a group of young Indian men beats the blaring speakers of a stall selling Tamil music CDs. People began to gather around the group, enjoying the music, some even dancing. You’ve been walking for a while now and the hot weather was really getting to you. Beads of sweat roll down your back while you literally push yourself through the crowd to keep up with your friends. You stop beside a stall selling vadai and scan the street for a source to quench your ever increasing thirst. A female voice calls out to you,

 

“Vadai venumma pa? (Do you want some vadai?”).

 

You turn and smile tiredly while shaking your head at the middle aged woman who was flipping delicious looking, almost golden vadais in a wok full of scorching hot oil. The heat from the wok was making you sweat even more. Suddenly an elbow jabs sharply into your left ribs causing you to almost bump into the hot wok. You turn and swear at your friend for jabbing you, who in return grins at you while pointing at a stall nearby. Finally! A stall selling ice cold drinks! You half walk and half run to stall, almost tripping over a plastic water bottle in the process.

 

Despite the crowd at the stall, you manage to grab a can of Coke, pay the guy at the counter and squeeze yourself out from the crowd back to your friends. You pop the can open, take a few big gulps continuously, pause shortly with an “Aaaahhh…” and continue gulping down more.

 

One of your friends immediately grabs the can saying

 

“Wey,  give me some lah!”

 

You take a few more gulps and give the can up with a satisfied grin. Your friends take turns to drink and the can comes back to you empty. You protest.

 

“Oi, empty ready lah! Why give back to me?! Idiot…”

 

Playfully you throw the empty can at the friend nearest to you. He ducks reflexively and the can misses his shoulders by just a few inches. It falls onto the road, bounces noisily a few times and rolls off to the curb. He laughs at you and says

 

“Just miss la bang…”

 

Another friend says “Eh come la, let’s keep moving. More stalls ahead.”

 

You continue walking with your friends.

 

The above is a very common scene. There are many others alike, only with a different story line. The endings is always the same; reckless littering. It doesn’t matter if it’s done with conscious or not. What matters is the aftermath of it. I should have taken a picture of what I saw on Sunday morning at Jalan Raja Musa Aziz (the road in front of DR Park). It was horrible. Rubbish was strewn across the entire road. Even the plants on the road dividers doubled as rubbish ‘hot spots’ or ‘dustbins’.

 

Yes, we have Majlis Bandaraya to clean them up. In fact, there were already a few of the workers around starting the cleaning works when I drove past. But why? Why dirty something first and then clean it when you can opt to just keep it clean in the first place. I was in Batu Caves the night before and it was no different there. Newspapers, plastic bags, cans, bottles and god knows what else were thrown everywhere. Wasn’t there enough dustbins provided? Or is it because the people just don’t care? Not aware?

 

We Malaysians have the world famous Twin Towers, we have commuters, we have big cities like KL and Penang, we have so many ‘high-techness’ in our country. But what’s the point of having all that when we are lacking the basics? When we’re lacking the cores of living? Does being clean only apply to the boundaries of our homes?

 

I’m not picking on Indians or Thaipusam. It could be Hari Raya or CNY Open House. It could be Merdeka Day celebration or your school’s Sport’s Day. Your company’s Family Day. It also could be a vacation with your family or something as simple as a trip to the mamak stall nearby. Does the rules of being clean changes the moment we step out of the house?

 

Does the word public mean - it’s not mine, I can use it, but I don’t have to care about it? You don’t have to sweep the streets to show that you care. Just don’t litter. You don’t have to carry a ‘berus jamban’ or Toilet Duck with you and wash every public toilet you use. A simple flush would do. These are the small big things that really matters. It makes a significant difference.

 

I know I contribute towards making that difference. Do you?

 



 
Feb
06
    
Posted (Bavani Ratnam) in General on February-6-2009

Whoa. Second post in a day.

 

*applause*

 

Anyway, this post is a reminder to myself that I should learn to numb myself whenever I get a rush of memories that are best left unremembered. And not take it like a blow to the stomach which leaves me with a surprised “Oh!” and ruins the rest of my day. Not good. Yes, I said unremembered, not forgotten. Because I can’t forget. But I do try to not keep them in my cache memory so that they don’t come by often and get me all screwed up. Yep, life goes on baby.

 



 
Feb
06
    
Posted (Bavani Ratnam) in General on February-6-2009

Yes! Rant indeed! I was almost late to work today due the the ‘kepoh’ mentality of fellow drivers. No really, what’s the big deal if there’s an accident? What’s the dire need to slow down or even stop and gawk like you’ve never seen one before? And the worst part, is attempting to get a look at accident vehicles that are no longer at the scene! Like…what?!?! Holding up traffic that causes traffic jam to almost a kilometre to look at shards of broken headlights/taillights on the road doesn’t make the slightest sense to me.

 

I don’t mind if it the vehicles involved is still on the path of traffic and is causing the jam. Shit happens. What pisses me off is that even after the the vehicles are moved aside to MAKE WAY for traffic,  drivers STILL slow down to gawk, stare and probably even take down the license plate numbers to buy lottery tickets. And I still don’t get it how other people’s misery could somehow be your luck and lead to you winning a whole lump sum of money but yea, that’s a another story all together. And in today’s case, there vehicles involved weren’t even there anymore! All that was left were some debris on the road. How a bunch of broken plastic pieces could be anyone’s subject of interest while driving to work/school/whatever at 8 in the morning totally baffles me. Jeez!

 

I was driving down the KL-Ipoh highway once, and there was this long ass traffic holdup. When I finally got to the point where the ’cause’ of the hold up was, I couldn’t come up with an explanation for the hold up that doesn’t defy the rules of logic. There was a truck parked at side of the highway, totally NOT blocking the traffic and the driver was chatting on his cellphone. That’s all! No seriously, that’s was all! And from that point onwards, the traffic was back to normal! People, are y’all kidding me?!?!

 

*smacks forehead*

 

Imagine if you’re the one involved in an accident. How would you like those who drive by to stare? Not very comfy isn’t it? Don’t do to others what you don’t want others to do to you. Simple concept. Grasp it already!

 

And for the political hoo-haa that’s been going on in Perak, or the country for that matter, I only have one question for fellow Malaysians.

 

Should we be voting for leaders or parties?

 

Think about it.

 

I love Fridays. TGIF.

 



 
Jan
13
    
Posted (Bavani Ratnam) in General on January-13-2009

The square mosaics on the wall inadvertently reminded her of the position she’s in. Surrounded and stuck with no way out. As she stared into nothing, her vision blurred. Memories of past flooded her thoughts in an instant. The joy. The excitement and thrill. The pain. And then the argument began.

 

“How could you be so stupid? You know it won’t happen.”

 

“But I really thought it was real. No wait it WAS real! I just didn’t have the chance.”

 

“Chance? No you’re missing the point. You’re missing the obvious.”

 

“But it’s not like it has never happened before..”

 

“You can never do it! You’re too much a chicken for this! Too nice actually…”

 

Someone flushed in the next cubicle, snapping her back to reality from the brain versus heart battle. Cursing quietly under her breath, she stood up and straightened the soft crumples on the front of her skirt.

 

Funny, she thought to herself, my brain thinks I’m stupid. How ironic.

 

She unlocked the door and walked out of the washroom before the occupant in the next cubicle came out.



 
Dec
19
    
Posted (Bavani Ratnam) in General on December-19-2008

Suddenly you feel as if the colors of your life are fading away. Everything starts to seem dull, so boring, so black & white. And then you say, hey, black & white are colors too. And life goes on…

It’s been quite a while since I wrote in metaphors. Metaphors means my mental health is in the dumps.

Oh well, time will tell.



 
Dec
09
    
Posted (Bavani Ratnam) in General on December-9-2008

 

But I think I am! Look what’s happened in the past 2 weeks…

 

1. I fell terribly sick. Flu, fever, sore throat, basically the entire package, you get the idea
>.<

2. Then I recovered and thought all is fine and dandy but my bro went and scratched my car
>.<  >.<

3. The same night that happened, I went to Jusco to watch Madagascar 2. I tripped and fell on the escalator and hurt my back
>.<  >.<  >.<

4. Then came a sudden change in my job function that I’m not particularly happy about, but choice wasn’t really a luxury I had, so yeah.
>.<  >.<  >.<  >.<

5. And right when my back was healing all nice n fine, my left eye swelled with some infection.
>.<  >.<  >.<  >.<  >.<

 

Damnit!

 

*waves fists at the sky*

 

Gimme a break already…jeez…



 
Nov
19
    
Posted (Bavani Ratnam) in General on November-19-2008

I’m sick.

I’m emo.

I’m confused.

I’m happy.

I’m sad.

All at once. Uh oh..this is not good…



 
Nov
10
    
Posted (Bavani Ratnam) in General on November-10-2008

That’s my new name. Courtesy of my beloved monkey sister.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Now ya’ll know what ‘dark side’ I mentioned earlier. I’ve joined the Four Eyed people. Or Nerds some may say. No, not N.E.R.D, those guys are still cool. One even called me a geek BEFORE the specs. Yea Jerie, I know, guess I completed the ‘look’ part of it now. Lol.